Submissive Blog Challenge #3

This blog post is in answer to the monthly blog challenge from Submissive Guide….

Is Submission a Gift?

Submission is often described as the most precious gift a submissive can offer a Dominant. Others don’t believe that submission is a gift at all. What is your opinion about this? Once you have an opinion, then consider the other opinion and talk about how they could or could not be right as well. How would you describe your submission to your Dominant?

When I first read this question, my first reaction was “submission is a gift,” but I’ve had time to think about this since I became Master’s girl last year. A little background before I continue. We met in a virtual world. We were friends prior to my being His girl. When I was thrown from a bad relationship last year, I went to my Master for protection and it continued from there. We moved it from the virtual world to the real world earlier this year.

To answer this question in a nutshell, submission is not just a gift, it’s also something that is taken from you. You’re bent to His or Her will…either by force or willingly…either way, it’s not just a “gift of submission.” Some can say it’s only one or the other…gift or force, but I say it’s both.

My submission to Master is a gift yes…it’s my giving Him my trust and my love willingly, but He also “took” my submission to Him. He’s worked to mold me into what He sees me as being…what He knows I can be. He’s encouraged me to work on my favorite hobbies and to work to enhance my skills. When I’m given an order, it’s done in such a way that most of the time I think it’s my own idea. My Master can be very crafty when He chooses to be, but when it comes down to the wire, his “suggestions” are outright orders and dominance. This is what I need and He knows it. He knows me better than I know myself and He uses that knowledge to dominate me into submission. And sometimes I need to be reminded of my submission and place. *grins*

The so-called “gift” goes both ways….He gives me the gift of His dominance over me. He provides me with what I need to feel loved and protected while still encouraging me to have my own life and opinion. To hold my own interests. He gives me a part of Himself as I give Him all of me. That in my opinion is the true gift that people miss the most. It’s not just a one-sided relationship. While we live in a hard life, we chose to do so, but we also were pulled into our submission to be their pet, baby girl/boy, slaves or submissives.

I am His slave. I am His pet. I am His baby girl. I am His sassy one. I am His girl.

He is my Master. He dominates me in just the right way. He gives me what I need to feel loved. He is my lover. He is my best friend. He is my Master.

This question is a complicated one because for some people who read this, it will only be a “gift” for others it will only be “force,” but for me it is both. I freely gifted myself to Him, but He also “forced” my submission to Him.

~girl

• December 15, 2011
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